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norabird posted 4/23/2014 16:04 PM

Boss has passed on my number to a friend of her son's. She has been trying to do this literally since November when I first moved out from living with A Very Bad Person To Live With But Lesson Learned. Needless to say that was not good timing but I think she meant well by the desire to set me up.

Said boss is a very sweet but sometimes over-bearing woman who is certain that being with a doctor must be the dream of all women (the single friend is in his 3rd year of med school).

No way am I EVER going to get involved with someone who will have to move for a residency thankyouverymuch. I guess on the plus side I feel like I can handle a blind date now...maybe. the grilling and expectation afterwards at the workplace, I'm not so sure about!

Sad in AZ posted 4/23/2014 17:25 PM

Wow! That is nine shades of wrong on your boss' part. She must have checked her brains and boundaries at the door when she came to work.

GabyBaby posted 4/23/2014 17:31 PM

I'm with Saz on this one.
Unless you gave your boss permission to give out your phone number, she crossed all kinds of boundaries.

Soooooo not cool.

norabird posted 4/23/2014 20:07 PM

I didn't disallow her from giving the number out, but she is very hard to say no to and I am not good at putting up firm resistance when her boundary-crossing begins. I have genuinely come to enjoy working for her but her sense of personal privacy is pretty much non-existent. And I often cave when she gets something into her head. Ugh now I'm dreading months of possible follow-up on this. I will just need to insert a spine on the topic and be clear about what I find to be unacceptable pressure in the future.

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