So an update on my situation. My STBXWW moved out two weeks ago, last week the OM ended up back in jail for violating probation when he PO caught him with my STBXWW. (Due to the fact that he is a sex offender, he has to inform his PO of all relationships with women especially if they have children. Which he didn't do.) Turns out he was also sleeping with three other women, so my STBXWW doesn't want anything to do with him anymore.
So yay,I don't have to worry about that relationship anymore coming back to dump more bullshit on me in the future. Tested clean in February for all STDs, going to go get tested again in a few months hopefully everything comes back clean again, but I'm starting to worry that it won't. She is experiencing symptoms of herpes, while I have't noticed anything on me.
In my life, I took a motorcycle safety course and got my motorcycle license and then got a motorcycle. Brand new leftover 2012 Honda Shadow 750, awesome deal on it too. I went out riding with my father last weekend and it was exhilarating and a great bonding experience. I don't miss my STBXWW all that much, I miss how she made me feel when I thought she loved me, but I don't miss HER. I'm living good while she struggles to pay her bills even with my child support payments.
I have to say I spend most of my days happy now. However there are a few days where I just don't feel like getting out of bed, not sad, just too tired. Being a single parent even part time is harder work than being a parent in a marriage, but I'm getting better at it.
[This message edited by Midas at 8:01 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday)]
Me - 37 (BS)
Her - 36 (XW)
OM#1-4 Dday 2/17/2014 pre-marriage
OM#5 - Dday 2/17/2014 <new info>
OM#6 - Dday 4/30/2006
OM#7 - Dday 1/29/2014
DD - 6yo
Filed for D 2/10/2014
False R 6/2014