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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today is our 21st Wedding Anniversary!

The A happened right after our 14th, so we've made it 7-years past that. Looking at those 14-years, gerrygirl and I both have good memories of that period, but we also don't want to let ourselves go back to the type of M we had before. I mean, we got M for a reason right? We loved each other. What we didn't know is that it takes work. We learned that post-A, I think I especially learned that lesson...and now, here we are.

Gerrygirl, I love you, and I'm happy to be able to wake up next to you each morning.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6103 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
lostworld
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Member # 19197
Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats to you both! So nice to see good news in this forum


Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married 30 yrs. w/ 2 grown kids
Dday 1: Very early 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

Posts: 820 | Registered: Apr 2008
brokeback
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Member # 41726
Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on 21 years together and surviving and thriving post-affair.

I'm happy for you both.


ME 43
BS 38
1 Child 3 years old
Married 18 years
DDay - 10/2013. EA 9 months. PA 4 months. Ended the affair 11/2014



Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2013
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary!!

Posts: 36489 | Registered: Mar 2011
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary, Bax and Gerrygirl!

Posts: 8019 | Registered: Dec 2010
heartbroken0903
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Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy anniversary to you both! Congratulations!


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2323 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy anniversary!

Congrats on surviving and thriving.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6437 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
BrokenButTrying
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Member # 42111
Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! Well done you guys :)


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1267 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
AML04
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Member # 39682
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary!! This brought tears to my eyes.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 875 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

Posts: 18356 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Happy anniversary!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38704 | Registered: Sep 2007
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary!!!


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


Posts: 2802 | Registered: Oct 2012
OnAnIsland
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy anniversary!


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


Posts: 1479 | Registered: Dec 2011
Teach8
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary to you both. And thank you for the hope.


Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R

Posts: 509 | Registered: Aug 2012
HUFI-PUFI
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Member # 25460
Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BaxtersBFF - I think I especially learned that lesson ... and now, here we are .... our 21st Wedding Anniversary!



Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3285 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations to you both!!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3475 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
justasinger
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Member # 43031
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congrats, it is great to hear some good news


BSO -me 38
WSO - her 30
2x DD ages 6 and 4
D-day #1 APR08 (supposed ONS w/OM)
D-day #2 1JAN13 2x ONS w/OM and OW, and a ONS
D-day #3 22APR14 (admitted to another ONS that she didn't fess up to during DDay #2)

Posts: 164 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: New England
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Baxter...

It's always such a joy to see you here!!! Give our love to Gerrygirl and job well done!!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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sunnyrain
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Member # 30164
Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary!


"I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne."

Posts: 450 | Registered: Nov 2010
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone! (Can't remember ever getting the clapping hand guy...Thanks Hufi)


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6103 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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