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inconnu (original poster member #24518) posted at 6:02 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
to maybe being able to do that squee-worthy post. Just sayin'... 
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 6:06 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 6:08 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Crossing my fingers for you
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 6:39 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
waiting and smiling here, too! 
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:40 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
YOU ARE SUCH A TEASE!!! 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 7:03 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
That's what I was thinking, NIK!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 7:15 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Oh, the suspense is killing me... 
I'm prematurely happy for you 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 9:20 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Waiting!!!!! Rather impatiently, I might add. 
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 9:24 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2014
Do we at least get a clue???
Failure is success if we learn from it.
inconnu (original poster member #24518) posted at 1:50 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
I really do need to start cleaning on my closet, sooner rather than later, if everything works out the way I want it to.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 2:03 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Then get CLEANING!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 2:09 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
OMG, you are giving up closet space!!!! (you will never be selected to appear on House Hunters... just sayin')
and can we squeee for you? just a tiny one?
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 2:10 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Here's to hearing a squeeeee soon !
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:18 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
Can I preemptively say, FINALLY!! or would that be rude? 
Mojo for you and your closet cleaning. And hope for the necessity of short deadlines in getting it clean.
[This message edited by Amazonia at 8:18 PM, April 24th (Thursday)]
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:26 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
I'll throw out a preemptive squee...
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:29 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
You're torturing us!!! 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
inconnu (original poster member #24518) posted at 4:40 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
you think you're being tortured? how do you think I feel?
I promise if I get to squee, y'all will be the first to know.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 6:50 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
inconnu (original poster member #24518) posted at 3:21 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
pretty sure it's a when, not if...
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 3:23 AM on Saturday, April 26th, 2014
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
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