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User Topic: how to act? what to say?
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I live in a medium/small town
and I dated a guy I met online 5/6 times that fizzled -we were never fully intimate (never met my kids). I would have liked more of a relationship, he was great on paper but he seemed distracted; not interested in me, so when he stopped contact, I let it go.

Saturday 2 months later... I see his car at my son's sports field.

no big deal..tons of games

I see him! He is the coach for the opposing team of my son's game! and they are short player so my son (heart of gold!!) volunteered to play on his team.
For an hour he is coaching my son...

I don't think he recognized me nor put two and two together since it was chilly and I had a coat and scarf on,
and I never talk to opposing coach after the game (unless I know him) so I left after match.

But summer game is come up we're scheduled again.

what to do?

Should I say hi?
let it go?


[This message edited by PhoenixRisen at 9:35 PM, April 24th (Thursday)]

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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would try to get to not caring. No reason not to say hi but no reason to feel awkward either. In the end it is such a small thing that it's a shame to get overly focused on it though I understand it's natural to be a little nervous. Just fake it til you make it and act cool as a cucumber. Good luck!

Sit. Feast on your life.

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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would guess he feels awkward too.

Act like he is any other coach or spectator and be yourself.

Unless he brings it up I wouldn't mention it. He may even like that you are not over the edge about him and ask you out or better yet you might discover you dodged a bullet.

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