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User Topic: Strangeasfiction - Where is he?
allatsea
♂ 38923
Member # 38923
Default  Posted: 2:51 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's all gone very quiet from Strange.

Has anyone heard from him? I'm fearing bad things


You can't fix crazy. All you can do is document it

Posts: 740 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
tushnurse
♀ 21101
Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me too AAS.
I hope he is at least still lurking and getting strong through our brilliant words of wisdom. If anyone has PM'd or heard from him, just let us know he's ok PLEASE!!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8792 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

add me to the list of concerned as well. Keep bumping this up until SAF answers.

If you're out there buddy we are worried about you.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2351 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
frankier
♂ 33901
Member # 33901
Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also... how about STU23?


Me BS 48
Her WS 39
DDay 7/5/10 1/yr EA/PA
DS1 12 DS2 8

Posts: 126 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: ChiLand
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!!!


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5540 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He logged into the site as recently as yesterday


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37621 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
evephoebe1
♀ 36923
Member # 36923
Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been worried, too.


Me: Survivor! BS (47)
Him: WH (45)
2 awesome kids, 13 & 16

Posts: 92 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: evephoebe1
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2351 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
strangeasfiction
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Member # 42160
Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all - I'm alive and well! Although I haven't posted recently I have been reading comments on my thread (and other threads, too!). Life has been very busy lately and I haven't had the time or energy to compose a thoughtful entry.

I'm actually in a pretty good place right now. Physically, emotionally and mentally I arrived at a measure of peace with the idea of filing for divorce. Then, out of nowhere, she started making signs of wanting to reconcile. For the first time I'm feeling empowered. Three months ago I probably would have grasped onto anything she might have offered me. Now, because I was ready to move on anyway, I'm in a position to decide whether our needs and wants are mutually compatible. With a lot of help from friends both here and IRL I have finally realized there IS a life waiting for me on the far side of whatever happens in the short term.

Other news - it's a boy. Obviously, the circumstances are far from ideal. Yet I can honestly say that I'm excited that my sons will have a little brother who will be their little brother long after I'm gone from this earth. I'm starting to see real signs from my WW that she is really considering what is best for the kids rather than just herself. I hope that continues no matter what happens to the marriage.

Mods - there's no need for this thread to take on a life of its own in parallel to main one. I'll copy this post onto the other thread.


Me - BS 39
Her - WW 34
Kids - 3 & 1
Married - 9 years
Status - FUBAR

Posts: 211 | Registered: Jan 2014
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