I never thought I'd have to do something like this. But I need to share and get advice. I feel that I've been so emotionally battered this year, I don't know which way is up or down.
A year ago. A found a text message on my H phone to a woman at his sporting club, and after further digging, emails. H admitted he had made a mistake and that nothing physical had happened. H said our family was worth saving. I believed him.
A couple of months after I saw FB messages and emails to OW number 2. They were more guarded. I only gave my gut instinct as to what went on. This time he denied it.
Wait for it...DD3.this weekend....OW3
Something hadn't felt right in a couple of months. I'd ask, he'd say nothing was wrong. I hate that I was resorting to snooping again. This time, the messages are to OW on the other side of the world, H trying to convince her to move here!!! Btw, they've never met.
Of course, because I looked at his phone...I'm the one in the wrong and can't be trusted.
I've spent the weekend crying. I'm now numb.
1 Awesome son 3y
DD1 May 2013
DD2 April 2014
Currently wondering how someone who vowed so much, can care so little