Finances are tight for both of us so I do understand that but of course he calls to discuss the issue. He goes on and on about how he's already paying me more than he should have to and child support plus spousal support I shouldn't even be getting anymore "with what I am doing" can cover it. Ugh. He acts like because I have a SO that is around often than that counts as living together and he shouldn't have to pay me alimony. He does stay over on some evenings when my kids are at their dads but for gods sake. He doesn't live with me. Has his own apartment. He is often over after work for a bit but when the heck else are we to discuss business stuff for this new salon otherwise?!
He tells me, and this is the funny part, that we're gonna have to sit down and amend our agreement because he's tired of paying me more than he should have to. Um, jackass, he had a year and a half of separation to figure out your finances and income and our divorce has only been final for 6 months. Seriously? I trusted him and didn't require income verification then, but I'm benign the bitchy ex wife if I make him get "all legal" about it instead of just letting him tell me what he can afford I told him if he felt the need to ask for changes or modification then he can go thru the proper channels just like everyone else....so I'm the bitchy ex wife again. Lol
If you're the "bitchy ex wife," maybe tell him "well, you made it this way." I know, it won't do any good, but still...
goes on and on about how he's already paying me more than he should have to and child support plus spousal support I shouldn't even be getting anymore
So he's a frigging saint for GIVING you all this money? Dude, you earned every fucking penny.
[This message edited by Pass at 11:54 AM, April 25th, 2014 (Friday)]
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!