[This message edited by Angeles85 at 12:11 PM, April 25th (Friday)]
Maybe he should read the pain dripping from BH here (would be a waste I guess, he sounds like the type that wouldn't get it).
I'm sorry you are stuck in this toxic environment.
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
he told me all men cheat, that the sooner I accepted that the better for me, that my problem was that I had "0" tolerance. Also, he said that if I didn't want to be cheated on, next time I should go for a mediocre man that no other women would be attracted to.
If this guy's words were representative of all men, I'd be taking a knife to my junk immediately. I can very, very much tell you that is all complete and utter bullshit, and I'm ashamed to share the pronoun "he" with this asshat. I have NEVER cheated on any woman, period, and I know there are plenty of other men like me. I may not make any magazine covers, but I know I'm above "mediocre" in the looks department, and at multiple times in my life I have been the interest of more than one woman at a time. Difference, again, is I STILL NEVER CHEATED! Yes, I could have, but real men have honor.
I hope you have an HR team there that doesn't consist of people who share your bosses sentiments.
[This message edited by MadeOfScars at 3:13 PM, April 25th (Friday)]
As a man who has NEVER cheated in any relationship EVER I would like to tell you that I am positive I am not the only one. There are loyal men out there so don't settle or write us all off just yet.
He is a cheating husband himself and his wife accepts him like that or so he says.
When you give in your notice, make sure you contact his wife for her wisdom and guidance on how she accepts her husband's cheating.
What a jerk.