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 CantSeeInTheDark (original poster member #43231) posted at 6:49 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014

Hi

I'm very new to the site....arrived today.

I've been doing a lot of reading on the site and people keep talking about 180.

I can't find what this is, could someone help?

Me 35y
Him 48y
1 Awesome son 3y

DD1 May 2013
DD2 April 2014

Currently wondering how someone who vowed so much, can care so little

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kodiak14 ( new member #43235) posted at 7:31 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014

I'm new too but I think there is a description of the 180 in the healing library or at least one of the places you can read articles. Vaguely described it's no contact with your spouse except by e-mail or text and only about child care/needs or finances. I'm sure there are others that can do a far better job than I can explaining this.

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neverdidithink ( member #40568) posted at 7:39 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014

Welcome CantSeeInTheDark , Details of the 180 are here:(#11) http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11

I'm sorry you needed to find this group, but you'll be amazed at the support.

BS, 57
M 13 years
second marriage, second WH
4 kids in their 20s

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 7:46 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014

Hi CantSeeInTheDark, I'm very sorry you find yourself here. The 180 designed for you to be able to detach and get yourself mentally stronger. Here are some links for you to start with:

It can be found under BS FAQ here:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11

And more info under the target thread here:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=232785

I would also recommend the other target threads that you see in this forum. Here are the links if you don't see them:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=235051

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=361740

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=385631

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=406548

Start with those and keep reading. Keep posting. If you feel up to it, let us know your story. We are here for you.

yop

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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 CantSeeInTheDark (original poster member #43231) posted at 7:49 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014

Thank you.

I'll go and take a look.

Me 35y
Him 48y
1 Awesome son 3y

DD1 May 2013
DD2 April 2014

Currently wondering how someone who vowed so much, can care so little

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