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User Topic: Divorce is Final!!
brokenhearted76
♀ 39616
Member # 39616
Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Part of my nightmare is over! The divorce is final! Still a struggle dealing with the narcissistic asshat. But I am getting stronger! With a bit more emotional distance I can see how emotionally and verbally abusive he was and is. Now he openly brags about all his women, past and current. And he is on a downward spiral. I look for him to implode soon. He is going to be homeless in a week, the friend he was living with has evicted him for "coming onto" to many of his dates. He is drinking a lot more and his anger is getting way worse. He is seeing that being a "player" isn't all he thought it would be. I call it karma.


~Me~ Blindsided wife, age 37
~Him~ XWH, age 37
~Son~ age 14
~Daughter~ age 18, special needs
~Dday~ June 4th 2013
~him: several affairs during our marriage both emotional and physical, latest physical affair in may 2013~

Posts: 85 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: brokenhearted76
MadeOfScars
♂ 42231
Member # 42231
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's to your bright, bright future!


“Nothing more completely baffles one who is full of trick and duplicity, than straightforward and simple integrity in another.” ― Charles Caleb Colton

Posts: 1354 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
devistatedmom
♀ 24961
Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on being done BH76. It's so sad to watch them spiral down and wonder what the heck happened to the person we thought we married. May he get everything he deserves.

Now you...You get on with that new beginning!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5588 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! I hope that you and he BOTH get exactly what you deserve!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2157 | Registered: Jan 2013
deena
♀ 27275
Member # 27275
Default  Posted: 12:18 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!

Your freedom sounds so good.
I am just starting this process and it is daunting right now.

Glad to read your post and see what the future holds


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.


Posts: 3142 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Canada
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 3:03 AM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!! You are a strong woman and momma! You will of course continue getting stronger while he can continue to spiral down. Enjoy your new beginning!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2304 | Registered: Oct 2012
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 4:53 AM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!! Enjoy your freedom and new life!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2782 | Registered: Jan 2010
LeftOutintheCold
♀ 42856
Member # 42856
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!! I'm only a bit over a month out from my dday, but I'm already looking down the road to D. I reading in this forum to help get strength to get ready for it.

I'm glad things are looking up for you! And, yes, I do believe your ex will get his sooner or later. What goes around comes around. You just keep being the bigger, better person and an awesome mama and you are going to go far!!!


Me - 42
WH - 40
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together 11yrs
Status - Headed towards Divorce

Posts: 332 | Registered: Mar 2014
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 664 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
Topic Posts: 9

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