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 damncutekitty (original poster member #5929) posted at 6:45 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

My SO starts a new job this week. He has worked overnights the whole time I have known him and in a few days will start working week days- a sweet office job with paid holidays and everything.

I am excited for him to be starting a new (and hopefully WAY BETTER) job.

I am somewhat amused at the idea that after more than a year of cohabitation we will now have to learn to get used to sharing a bed.

Our schedules give us a lot of built in alone time. Sort of. I mean, the other person is usually sleeping in the other room, so it is alone and quite time. But alone time. Hopefully we won't be stepping on each other now.

But honestly it's hard to think about the serious things. I am too excited thinking about things we can finally do together now that he's not working nights. Lazy weekend breakfasts, morning walks, weekend getaways... OMG- enjoying holidays!

SQUEE!!!!

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 8:46 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

Love it!

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 9:08 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

happy for you two!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:21 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

I'm so happy for you both!

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:30 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

Yay!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 10:36 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

If you make up your mind to adjust... You'll adjust...

Go girl go!

WB

The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor

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inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 10:57 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

Congrats to your SO on the new job. May it turn out to be everything he wanted, and more.

Have fun with getting to do more "normal" stuff together. Hope the sleeping at the same time adjustment goes well.

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

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Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 11:02 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

Cool!

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 damncutekitty (original poster member #5929) posted at 11:50 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

If you make up your mind to adjust... You'll adjust...

It helps that we are both aware that there will be a need for adjustment.

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

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 damncutekitty (original poster member #5929) posted at 11:54 PM on Sunday, April 27th, 2014

SO has been wanting to find a new job for a while, then he found out that he was being laid off and he kicked the job search into high gear. He's actually starting his new job the day after his current one ends. It's kind of a miracle, actually. Not only does he find a job right in the nick of time, but a GOOD job that he's really excited about. I have been going back and forth between giddy excitement and extreme gratitude.

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 1:46 AM on Monday, April 28th, 2014

Woooo!

Sit. Feast on your life.

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