Me BS 42 Him WS 44
There is a thread for those of us whose WS travel for work. If you haven't found it yet, here it is:
Just wanted to tell you that I understand what you are feeling. It IS scary when they travel, especially to the place where the AP lives. My WH worked with OW who lived several hours away. He would have to travel to work WITH her occasionally.
You can do it, but it will require your WH to be very, very transparent and diligent when he is away. I needed almost constant contact at first. He no longer works with his OW, but still travels to her area occasionally. I am much better now though. At 2 years out, if you do the work on YOU, you can get to a place where you realize that your WH can cheat anywhere. You let go, but it requires you really working on you to make you strong. Are you in IC? That has been the single biggest lifesaver for me. Hugs!
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl
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