Has he lied outright about these things, or simply made promises and then not followed thru? Would a nudge help? "XY annd Z are pretty important for my well being and building trust. You said you would do those things, but I have not seen it happen. Can we talk about that?"
Even if time has passed, you do NOT have to accept a borken promise. And if he want to keep you, he should have to honor all of your agreements. Otherwise, it seems like a slippery slope back to his cheating on you, doesn't it?