My STBXWH and I have an in house separation, it's not a legal separation just 2 separate bedrooms - I moved out of master in November....I filed for D in January and if he wasn't such an a$$ to deal with or if I wouldn't stand up for myself and DD15 and insist on certIn things in the MDA we would officially be divorced- but that didn't happen. But mediation is scheduled for next week...
So in the mean time- he takes DD15 around OW, to her house, rides her horses, have dinner together. Makes me sick. I'm over OW and his cheating ass- but I worry about the message he sends not just DD15 but our other 3 adult kids (oldest 25) as well. Am I over reacting, should this not bother me???? This past weekend DD15 and her boyfriend that's 15 both joined the cheating bastard and his OW at her house- had dinner there, hung out. I'm really torn about this as I see it sends the message that his behavior is ok. I know we are divorcing but can't he wait. I even think if he didn't live in the same house with us it wouldn't be as bad. He sets this example for our daughter and her boyfriend!!!
Should I "let it go"??????
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)
"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
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