I am consulting with a divorce attorney tomorrow morning. My WH does not know I'm doing this.
I'm not sure I am going to file - but I am seeking information on spousal support, division of property, etc.
One problem is that my WH is the OW's supervisor. I am afraid he could be sued for harassment.
Dday 1 was in October and since we were going to IC/MC, I 'assumed' it was over. Found out 4/16 that it didn't end until mid-March. Sad, mad and disgusted!
So, another issue - he really seems like he 'gets it' now. He is very sad & upset. But he just went for a biopsy this week and, although we won't know results until 3/8, I feel I need/should be supportive however it turns out.
But - my question - what info do I take to the lawyer's office tomorrow? Salaries, bills, anything else?