Me: New beginnings
i agree with the other posters, writed down your needs and present them for consideration. you also have to have what your next steps are in mind.
I tried R for 6 years, once I had enough, i set firm boundaries, marriage counseling or we must start divorcing. My wife agreed, and I was shocked when she said I'm ready for a divorce.
Her: Left her family without a plan
Two children, innocent victims (15 & 17)
Married March 1996
Divorced January 2016