NOTE: All convos are in person at the shop. Never go out of the way to talk besides appt times.
Here is the kicker……then he says I feel drawn to you…like I could love you if you let me……ME: I won’t be letting you do that.
Now, decode that for me ……what is he tryna be a KISA…or what? I am the same jovial, loquacious person with everyone……the same story I told him, is what my best girlfriends know. If someone asks…I consider it sharing my testimony of growth, not a cry for pity or sympathy.
I’m not touching him with a ten-foot-pole. I can find another barber…..I just wonder…what he is trying to pull here.
"His girl"? So he has a SO and is saying this nonsense? That takes it to a whole 'nother level of skeevy
Anecdotal, I know...but I can't call it. I just wonder for what? If dude is feeling some
type-a-way go home to ya girl and do whatever it is with her.
I just don't get it. BE single and do what you want. Why is that so hard?
I promise I will not be in a relationship for a while after my situation is final....
He isn't taking hints. If he doesn't get it when it's spelled out right in front of him, switch barbers!
You would tell me the same thing.
It is always nice to hear but he is pulling game on you and trying to get a little on the side. Trust!
[This message edited by Faithful w/Love at 11:43 AM, April 29th (Tuesday)]
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
I guess my thing is...why do people hitch up if they wanna play the field? Seriously. Is this a cultual thing? I have friends that are single and kidless and mingle but they catch hell. WHY? Why not commend them for knowing themselves well enough to know what they want, when and with whom...and knowing enough to know they haven't found it yet?
Take my wh for instant. He has cheated mind body and soul. Meaning, he can talk and charm all he wants but I am on to him. He may feel he isn't doing anything bad like having an A. But, if you are on dating sites, searching females that you work with, emailing females that you work with, getting messages from females about hooking up for sex, going out with female co workers, texting your xAP, and still confessing your love for me... what does that tell you?
A culture thing??? I don't know but personally, in my little world where I live we have ALOT of playa's who are married or have a main woman. Makes me sick... And I don't understand why they just don't go and be single.
I feel ya on all that you are sayin.
Also? Some people suck.
[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 1:09 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)]
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."