I spent sometime today reflecting and I guess at the root of it is that I have dear friends from over 20 years both girls and guys.
Meeting people as adults or post divorce is different and a lot of people don't have close relationships with people. I guess I am use to a relationship that doesn't require work.
It doesn't bother me but I want to be friends with people that have genuine consideration for others.
They are nice people but why spend time with people if you can't count on them to care about you. They do care but I think honestly they don't know how.
I think I just need to cut back on life in general for a bit. I guess I care about people and hope these people find someone who cares but how could someone care about them when they don't know how?
It isn't my responsibility and I could be wrong but it is my time I am running around to be there for them.
I just need to redefine my boundaries and I will be ok. I am so grateful for my old friends- married or single they are there at the drop of a hat. That also includes SI