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User Topic: Closed escrow on the house today!
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After much crazy drama, the marital,home is finally sold as of today! Soooo happy to close this final financial loose end!

The buyers have been leasing the house for months, we finally told them when their lease was up we would be relisting (April 1). We did, and got a full price offer in a few days.

They had 3 days to go forward with their purchase option or to remove their contingency and let us sell to the other family. At the 11th hour they miraculously found a way to purchase the house.

Then today, as we are driving to the title company for my 9 am appointment to sign docs, they email my agent to tell her "Jesus has told Mr. Lunatic not to purchase your house because he doesn't want to be perceived as taking advantage of your family when you could have gotten more money from the back up offer." He wanted to personally come and explain to me, so I told the realtor to please bring him in because I just had to hear this!

He has been praying for my family situation. (He is a pastor). He serves a higher power, and even though NOT closing today means he is moving out of the house to-fucking-day with his wife and 6 children, he will pull out of the deal, lose his earnest money ($6000, plus $2500 deposit) and be homeless because Jesus sacrificed for him and will provide for his family.... He is more concerned with MY family and the perception that he tricked me into this deal.

What in the ever loving fuck?

I will admit, both my realtor (a close friend, Texas bad ass woman) went a tiny bit postal on this guy. I got so pissed off I actually had to walk out of the room to call my SO because I was worried I was going to say something terribly inappropriate.

I told him I had been looking forward to this date for months.. That I needed this closure with my ex... And that he was in no way "tricking" me into anything! What a loon!

I am capable of making my own business decisions- even if his wife wasn't- she was not there and isn't on their loan. But me? I can take care of me just fine thankyouverymuch!

The people in the title company said they have NEVER seen something this bizarre. Ever.

So he said if I really needed the closure and it would help me to be done with a bad time he would sign, but only if I really wanted him too.

I told him I was NOT going to make his decision for him. That was on his shoulders. He agreed to sign, and the loan was funded today!

I'm celebrating with friends tonight and with SO this weekend! Finally free of the last tie! Whoop!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3631 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, if things had gone off today without a little crazy, I would have worried. Congratulations, PR!



You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26191 | Registered: Aug 2011
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woohoo! Awesome.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7820 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
slicerboy
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


Me: Realizing my worth
Her: Escaping

Two children, innocent victims (14 & 15)

When I look back, we both hurt each other in so many ways and our lack of honesty and maturity coupled with poor communication led us to where we are today


Posts: 810 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Minneapolis
kg201
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! I am going to hope for some of your mojo to rub off on my home sale.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
---------------------------------
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 772 | Registered: Aug 2013
imwideawake
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Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is one of the most bizarre stories I have heard! congrats to closing the chapter!


Together 21 years.
Married 19
Me: BW, now 45
Him XWH
dday 9/08
3 daughters, now 20, 19, & 16
Divorced 12/04/12

Posts: 908 | Registered: Mar 2009
persevere
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!! I thought I had a crazy closing situation when I sold my house in 2012, but you got me beat lady! Wow!!! So glad you pulled it out! I remember the stress!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4669 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nik, that pic is perfect! Looney toons for sure!

Thanks all... So happy this is over!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3631 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yee haw!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17704 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
SBB
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Default  Posted: 12:39 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is the nuttiest thing I've ever heard.

Are you getting the full price from them? Where did he get the idea that he is taking advantage of you?

How very apt that the end of his saga has one last lap around nutjob central. Geez Louise.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5658 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Skan
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Surfing Madonna, must have told him to Chill Out, Dude!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 5097 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Dobegirl
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whoop! Whoop! Congrats!!

And that's just a special kind of crazy


Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, online profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/13
On the fence.....

Posts: 152 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok Skan, that picture of the Surfing Madonna freaked me out...

It lives in my home town.

And your quote is one I have used exclusively for a few years in another profile....

[This message edited by PurpleRose at 7:07 PM, May 1st (Thursday)]


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3631 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SBB... We went under contract last summer with this nut job. The market has since gone bananas here, and when I listed the house again earlier this month, it was for about $20,000 more than the price we had negotiated with nut job.

But we had a contract. Period. He is flipping crazy ..


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3631 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
SpecialK
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Member # 42372
Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! I had my share of wacky closings, but nothing like this! Glad it worked out in the end...

Posts: 364 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
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