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Topic: ? about VA disability and child support

AppalachianGal
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Posted: 5:58 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014

My H gets disability from the VA due to injuries sustained in Iraq. Does anyone know what happens if we divorce concerning child support and his VA disability? I know that *I* cannot personally receive any of his VA, but my question is -- Does the court count his VA disability as income that is used to figure child support? I've been told no.... by him. Anyone with experience with this?

This isn't the same as his Guard retirement. Since we've been married over 20 years, I know I get HALF when we divorce when he reaches the age to draw it, which I believe is like 62.

BS (me) 41; WS, 44
DD#1- 09/07/10 secret cell found, texting ho-worker. Denies EA/PA
DD#2- 12/29/13 admitted ONS (1993) with bar slut 3 yrs into marriage
DD#3- 01/21/14 ho-worker from 2010 involved "one-time BJ."

Posts: 447 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: TN

k94ever
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Posted: 8:13 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014

I'm pretty sure VA Disability is NOT used to compute CS.

BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
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Dreamboat
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Posted: 8:31 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014

I found some links on this subject:

http://www.nclamp.gov/l_va%20disability.pdf

http://www.vetsspouse.com/Child_Support.html

http://www.military.com/features/0,15240,245321,00.html

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/css/resource/income-withholding-and-veterans-benefits

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hexed
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Posted: 8:35 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014

My SO's XWW gets 100% disability. It was used to calculate child support in our state. You may need to check your state's child support guidelines. Although it's a federal program, state guidelines will apply.

Also, if your children are eligible for SSDI because of his disability that may be used in calculating CS.

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AppalachianGal
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Posted: 9:37 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014

Looks like it IS figured in as income for child support, just like I thought. Thanks!!

Posts: 447 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: TN

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