Sorry this is my second post today but I had to share this it's SO unbelievable!
I am not trying to be nasty here just remind us all that sometimes WS's aren't all that fussy about their AP's.
I had to post this as I am in shock anyone would act this way!
H has only actually cheated once but his MLC all really started when an ex from over 20 years ago contacted him on fb. He flirted in a really extreme way with her. She didn't take him up on his flirting and didn't make contact again. Neither did he.
So I always thought of her as an ok woman with some morals.
Fast forward 3 years and after H's real affair he tells me everything now. He told me this ex was working in our local supermarket and any contact they have, saying hi in passing or a quick chat, which I allowed cos she did nothing wrong and he wasn't really that interested, just flirting. After the first time he saw her he was shocked to say the least at how she had changed, so I never worried about her again.
Anyway, tonight he came in looking shocked. Told me he had seen ex there with a new baby. he didn't speak but she did as usual. He asked her jokingly where she got the baby and she shrieked 'out of my fanny ha ha ha!'
He just stood there and stared, who the hell says that in a public place?! Then to make it worse someone commented on the baby growing well. H joked she must have him on fertiliser cos he is growing so fast. She laughed and again said 'yeah it is! in a very loud voice while grabbing and jiggling her breasts!
All I can say is wow, the AP (potential AP in our case) really doesn't have to be anyone special do they
I was shocked then thanked H for telling me but I couldn't resist reminding him, you propositioned her, remember...he looked physically sick.
Just think he could have ended up with that prize...
Really hope this doesn't sound too bitchy, I just can't resist sharing it. The look of horror on his face when he told me said it all.