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Newest Member: LifeAfter (61809)

User Topic: 3 years ago today
♀ 37735
Member # 37735
Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

was the day that WH's PA started with the SLUT.
I didn't find out until 8 days later.

I wish I had found this site right away, but at least I did eventually.

Our marriage is stronger, in some ways.

I have lost a lot, & am still grieving.

Thank God for SI and all of you. You have been a life saver.

Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011
Married 28 years/Together 29 years/4 kids together
OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids
Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

Posts: 2490 | Registered: Dec 2012
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 7:17 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
♀ 34319
Member # 34319
Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hugs to you. Let yourself grieve. Have you talked with your WH about how you are feeling?

be gentle with yourself. Is it possible for you to to do something to pamper yourself- something you enjoy today?

D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou

Posts: 1486 | Registered: Dec 2011
♂ 42012
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 4487 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
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