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mchercheur (original poster member #37735) posted at 12:59 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
was the day that WH's PA started with the SLUT.
I didn't find out until 8 days later.
I wish I had found this site right away, but at least I did eventually.
Our marriage is stronger, in some ways.
I have lost a lot, & am still grieving.
Thank God for SI and all of you. You have been a life saver.
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 1:17 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
OnAnIsland ( member #34319) posted at 2:21 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
hugs to you. Let yourself grieve. Have you talked with your WH about how you are feeling?
be gentle with yourself. Is it possible for you to to do something to pamper yourself- something you enjoy today?
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 2:24 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
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