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steadfast1973 posted 5/2/2014 07:51 AM

So, my MIL is total NPD... even found a way to turn her husband's molestation of her son into her son betraying her... But yesterday for #throwbackthursday, I posted an old photo of my daughters... and my sister notices the resemblance between DD10 and my nephew... Which, since all I can see when I look at DD10 is my sister at that age (both looks and personality)... No surprise. So my MIL starts in, about how DD10 looks NOTHING like my family, and starts posting side by sides of my DD and my other nephew (which honestly, bears very little resemblance other than both are blond)... When my sister said, I always tell my sister how much DD10 reminds me of her, and I agree... My MIL flipped her shit... "yelling" at me for "shutting her out". Publicly on my FB page... Yes, DD10 favors fWH... that does not exclude her also favoring my family as well, nor vice versa... Jeez... that woman is nuts.

tushnurse posted 5/2/2014 08:18 AM

Well my dear I would think the easiest way to deal with that is to just block her, and defriend her. If she asks why, tell her you don't do drama. She can either like it or lump it.

FTB - Life is too short to deal with that nonsense.

steadfast1973 posted 5/2/2014 10:07 AM

well, the last time I blocked her, she started coming into our house when we were gone and snooping... though... I think she already did that... because she was pressing me on something she shouldn't even know anything about...

Basically, we stopped telling her about dd10's soccer games because she kept running out onto the field "for hugs" any time the ball was near the stands... when I told her she can't do that, she flipped... "I can't even hug my grandchildren without you saying I did it wrong..." Yeah, you came to a 5th grade soccer game at 9am reeking of beer, and ran out onto the field DURING A CHAMPIONSHIP GAME multiple times! You fucking did it wrong...

It would be easier to just write her out of our lives like fWH wants, but she lives 5 houses down from us...

[This message edited by steadfast1973 at 10:09 AM, May 2nd (Friday)]

JanaGreen posted 5/2/2014 10:14 AM

OMG she sounds like a psycho. Is moving an option?

knightsbff posted 5/2/2014 10:20 AM

Change your locks!!!! Seriously creepy, psycho MIL!

And block her. I agree with fWH, Go NC too. Life is too short.

steadfast1973 posted 5/2/2014 11:25 AM

Moving is the plan... But not for a year. Yeah, the locks are getting changed this weekend.

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