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hurtyetstrong posted 5/2/2014 08:50 AM

I checked out the healing library, seems like most of the book recommendations are geared towards reconciliation.

I have made up my mind to separate and need help building a backbone to stand up to WH when he tries to hoover me back.

norabird posted 5/2/2014 09:16 AM

Getting Past Your Breakup by Susan Elliot.

Living and Loving After Betrayal by Steven Stosny.

The Breakup Bible by Rachel Sussman.

I read all of these and found them helpful. The Sussman is the fluffiest, the Stosny is the most calming, and the Elliott is the most practical, quick-and-dirty.

justinpaintoday posted 5/2/2014 09:25 AM

Getting past you breakup. Im half way through but love it so far. Practical and direct.

Abbondad posted 5/2/2014 09:45 AM

I always recommend The Journey from Abandonment to Healing. It's the only one of these books that really impacted me and which I go back to again and again.

DepressedDaddy posted 5/2/2014 09:48 AM

This is what I am reading and it is fantastic...

"The Language of Letting Go" by Melody Beattie

It is a daily meditation guide. It has a ton of great topics. I highly recommend it!

Nature_Girl posted 5/2/2014 10:16 AM

Getting Past Your Breakup. And do the exercises she suggests!

sparkysable posted 5/2/2014 13:04 PM

I found Runaway Husbands to be very helpful.