So my wonderful husband.. soon to be ex will be moving to Florida in 3-4 weeks. He already has a job lined up and everything.
We have on DD together and he has a DS. They are both under 6 yrs old. I spoke to an attorney yesterday and I will be going for Sole Custody with no vistation in Florida (due to his track record the last nine months). Mind you, this is the guy that was fighting tooth and nail to get his DS to come live with us a year ago. Now he is up and leaving both of his children.
He hasnt seen our D in almost 2 weeks but is constantly with his gf and her little girl. I get it. Our M is over, he doesnt want me anymore, that is something im dealing with and getting stronger about. But how he can just up and leave his children just throws me for a hoop. I know he's selfish, but these poor babies.
I would have NEVER thought he would turn into this type of guy. Those kids were his world. We are only in our middle 20's and he was a young dad as well, but he made those babies number 1 priority constantly. Now.. they are just disposable.
I guess im just having a hard time accepting the fact that he can just write them off so fast, and for what? His plan is to go work with his friends uncle as a lineman and open a crossfit gym down there. He has nothing finacially to support him until he starts working.
He stated to me yesterday that if i dont allow our D to come visit him, that I should not expect a dime for him. That he will not pay child support.
ughhhh! im beyond frustrated. My heart is hurting for me, now is feels like its breaking all over again for the kiddos.