MSA says I get Mothers Day he gets Fathers Day.
We agree to schedule a year in advance. In my residual co dependence I was concerned about offering him Memorial Day at the time, thinking more about others than myself. He refused Memorial DAy weekend as his one weekend a month.
TODAY I REALIZE NEXT WEEKEND is Mother's Day which is also his weekend of the month for visitation.
I emailed asking he bring the girls back Saturday or switch weekends because Mothers Day is mine according to agreement.
I am now thinking he planned this and now what if he says well too late you agreed a year in advance, or you had no objection until now too late? then owife gloats at being with MY kids on Mother's Day.
I'm trying to imagine this was just an oversight and that he will do the right thing.
The other part of me is planning vengeance on exposing his unethical just downright crappy behavior. Owife is domineering. I am concerned even if he did want to do the right thing that she would forbid him to do it.