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User Topic: seeing L on Monday, do I need to include my story?
deena
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, May 3rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am getting all of the documents ready to take to the lawyer.
Copies of past taxes, list of assets, and my story. An asst. for another lawyer I was planning on seeing (but didn't, she got promoted to judge), had asked for my story when coming to see the lawyer. So I have made one up for this new lawyer
If this is necessary is the following ok? Or is it too much info?

Got the answer I needed so deleted the story.

[This message edited by deena at 3:33 PM, May 3rd (Saturday)]


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.


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myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, May 3rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My lawyer didn't specifically ask for the story written out but when we first met for a consult I had questions for her and she had some for me. Her questions she asked me pretty much got the story told.


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, May 3rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that is a little more information than the L will want or need. Just start with that your WS cheated on you multiple times and gave you an STD. If your L wants more details then he/she will ask.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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deena
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, May 3rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks
I think I will skip this whole page for the paper work to the lawyer.
I didn't want to have to say this verbally.

I will skip any of this and just stick with a simple "infidelity" and nothing else.

I didn't feel comfortable with saying any more. Just wasn't sure if details was needed.


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.


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