Happy Spring everyone. I feel finally like a tree starting a new season of growth , peace and happiness in my new almost divorced life and am hoping many of you are feeling the same. It's taken a long time but I can finally say " We are never ever getting back together", and really mean it with all my being.
If anyone can share their experience with me on your stbx appealing every judgement regarding alimony I would very much appreciate your wisdom.
We went to court initially and a temporary order was put in place. He appealed. While they figured out the final order he got fired from a 100k a year job. How convenient.
They came back with a final judgement of keeping the original monthly amount and didn't include rental income from his inheritance due to his current financial situation.
He has now appealed that and I go to court the end of May. He has also since losing his job become a born again Christian and tried to reconnect with our adult children and grandson. If it's him really trying to change his life awesome good for him but I see it as trying to manipulate the system and pray the court sees through the charm and bullshit. This is all within. 3 weeks time the losing the job and finding God.
I have an excellent attorney that I have complete faith in and know I have to trust the process and whatever happens is meant to be. I will be contacting him this week to try to keep the judgement as is and add the 10% inheritance when we go to court.
My stbx 's goal is to get it based on no income or unemployment. What are the chances of that happening? Right now I basically have a piece of paper and he's in arrears of $7500. So really I'm not getting anything anyway.
Any advice or wisdom would be greatly appreciated. Have a great weekend.
