I broke NC.
He was being his usual idiot self, but it was affecting my attorney fees...as in jacking up higher and higher.
I know my H. Been with him for 10 years. I've always know I could have kept him from "choosing' her if I kissed his ass, rugswept, and let him be by his terms. FTS. I refused to sell my soul and eat his shit and feed him the kibbles. So, did nothing when he came home and told me over and over, "I'm really leaving you. I am packing now!"
Showed him the door. The bell rang, and he was served LS papers. Boy was he pissed. He thought Mami was going to do some begging and instead she held the door open and helped him pack.
BUT, I'm already at $9,000 in the hole with the D attorney and they want another $1,500. I'm not employed, don't have it.
Bit the bullet and broke NC. I was worried about getting hurt, cuz NC=No New Hurts.
In the past it was for my own protection. I'm not super woman, this A shit brought me to me knees and almost broke me, KWIM!
I fed him some kibbles. Fed him some more.
And he poured out like an avalanche. The stupid shit he said. Then the "Oh, I'm so broke and life is so hard" shit. WTFEva.
But, he is going next week and signing the Consent Decree for D!!!!!!!
OH, and I learned how much he paid in taxes this year...didn't ask. I learned that life is not so good in Unicorn Fartland, didn't ask.
He was hurt and offended that 1 I am D'ing his crazy ass, and 2 I humiliated him when he was served in front of his cough, hack, ahem, "girlfriend"
I am still evil, treated him like a paycheck, am not as devout as Miss Catholic, didn't love him enough, hurt him throughout the M, and was emotionally abusive for years!