"You can survive this. Talk to others that have"

idkam posted 5/3/2014 22:02 PM

Because I do not have any frig-gin lights. I decided to go with a new company and they require you to wait 24 to 48 hours before they turn on the lights. I'm still at my friends house hopefully no longer than Monday. Grrr!! The mule has been nice, I guess he finally realize there's nothing he can do to me now.

I was feeling a little sad earlier but I believe I'm past it for now. Acknowledged it, felt it and let it go.

healingtree posted 5/3/2014 23:54 PM

The lights will be on eventually. Moving, changing, and doing things differently is always challenging, no matter what. Just know that EVENTUALLY you will get settled!

Patience it tough when we want things to be right now.

idkam posted 5/4/2014 21:14 PM

Healing; thanks you are so right. Patience is something I'm still growing into because when I want something I want it now.

Today was a good day my friends and I got a lot of my things from the storage unit, you really do not know how much junk you accumulate until you move. My mattress and box spring was delivered also, and I was able to unpack all of boxes and bags.

Everything is looking good except I do not have any lights. Tomorrow is a new day and hopefully all of my woes will be gone. Hopefully.

norabird posted 5/5/2014 00:11 AM

((((Idkam))))

Congrats on the new place. Here's to all the lights coming on bright and cheery!

million pieces posted 5/5/2014 04:43 AM

I just read this and thought lights = lamps. Was thinking how odd that there isn't at least an overhead light in the bathroom. Then was going to suggest running to goodwill or target. Then I realized that no lights = no electricity!!! Ha, that would be more of a problem

Good luck with your next adventure!

idkam posted 5/6/2014 11:35 AM

Million...

My lights were on when i got home last night, Yay!! Then i noticed i needed lamps because there are no light fixtures in the bd rm or living rm...Dollar Store here i come....i didn't haveWiFI either... I called the manager and she went to my balcony to check and told me she got a weak bar...I'll have to check it out when i get home...

I just got basic cable too...

Mr.. Mule sent me a text telling me i will regret leaving him... conceded much?? :

Kajem posted 5/6/2014 13:41 PM

Yay for your new place!!!!!

Light is always a good thing to have. The dollar stores here are having some good sales, hope you score some deals!

K

nowiknow23 posted 5/6/2014 13:50 PM

Mr.. Mule sent me a text telling me i will regret leaving him...

The only regret you might have is that you didn't do it sooner.

Congrats on the new place!

idkam posted 5/6/2014 15:23 PM

Kajem, the dollar stir will be my best friend for a while...moving has help me to see i have too much STUFF... Although i filled up 6 lawn bags when we moved to the condo i still have so much Stuff...

Now; exactly..

Some times i think about the things he said to those women in in the emails and I'm still so surprised....this man has two personalities....i would not have ever thought he would send pics of his private to a woman, never.....

How can i ever trust again? Dayum he really fooled me...