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User Topic: Divorcing a high conflict individual
mainlyinpain
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A very good article:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/virginia-gilbert-mft/what-therapists-dont-tell_b_2622776.html


DD 1 - 7/7/2004
DD 2 - 10/31/2011
DD 3 - 4/30/2013(or continuation?)(Yes)
DD 4 - 9/25/2013
DD 5 - 2/15/2014 (found phone from 2009)

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GingerAle
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very good article, thanks for sharing it.


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


Posts: 428 | Registered: Nov 2011
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree. I hope that our society will begin to better understand what these disordered folk are truly capable of (manipulation of the court system, the children, the therapists, etc.). How much better off would we all be if we took the blinders off and realized what we were dealing with?

I follow all of the steps of this article, and I am grateful that I was told to do so by the folks on here. My ex does not care how I feel, nor does he feel bad about what he's done. He only cares about his image, so I have saved myself a lot of time and grief by keeping my mouth shut, my feelings to myself, and a great distance between us as much as possible.


FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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GreatRoleModel
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing love the section on parallel parenting and was great to see it in writing.


BS (me)
XWS (him) NPD
DIVORCED!!!
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!
“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost

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