I agree. I hope that our society will begin to better understand what these disordered folk are truly capable of (manipulation of the court system, the children, the therapists, etc.). How much better off would we all be if we took the blinders off and realized what we were dealing with?
I follow all of the steps of this article, and I am grateful that I was told to do so by the folks on here. My ex does not care how I feel, nor does he feel bad about what he's done. He only cares about his image, so I have saved myself a lot of time and grief by keeping my mouth shut, my feelings to myself, and a great distance between us as much as possible.