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Divorce/Separation :
Divorcing a high conflict individual

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 mainlyinpain (original poster member #39134) posted at 2:52 AM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

A very good article:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/virginia-gilbert-mft/what-therapists-dont-tell_b_2622776.html

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GingerAle ( member #33822) posted at 3:21 AM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

Very good article, thanks for sharing it.

My EXWH: 6 month EA in 2010 OW 1

2 year Sexting/PA 2012-2014 OW2

I divorced him in May 2014

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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:28 AM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

I agree. I hope that our society will begin to better understand what these disordered folk are truly capable of (manipulation of the court system, the children, the therapists, etc.). How much better off would we all be if we took the blinders off and realized what we were dealing with?

I follow all of the steps of this article, and I am grateful that I was told to do so by the folks on here. My ex does not care how I feel, nor does he feel bad about what he's done. He only cares about his image, so I have saved myself a lot of time and grief by keeping my mouth shut, my feelings to myself, and a great distance between us as much as possible.

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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GreatRoleModel ( member #36809) posted at 4:00 AM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

Thanks for sharing love the section on parallel parenting and was great to see it in writing.

BS (me)
XNPDWS
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“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost

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