I hate the OW and today, I can say the same for WS.
I found out about the A in march when the OW called me at work and said she was pregnant(I don't believe she is). I was unsuspecting. Previously, the stupid cow had come into my place of wok and I had served her. I saw texts where she told WS about it. She got off on it, I think. I didn't know he was cheating so I didn't memorize her face. She was just another customer.
After Dday, she sent me numerous cruel and very detailed emails. She got off on that too. Today, she showed up at my job AGAIN. I wasn't 100% sure it was her. She walked right up to me and asked where the bathroom was. I told her and started helping someone else( I work in a high end store). It wasn't until I was able to look up her purchase after she left, that I was certain it was her.
I hate her. I know we aren't suppose to give any headspace to the ho-bags but she has shown up at my job, bombarded me with emails until I blocked her, and threatened to send messages to my kids. I hate her. Right now, I hate him too. I hate infidelity. I hate my life.
Seriously, how does one human do this to another?
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.
[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 12:17 AM, May 6th (Tuesday)]
At least now I know exactly what she looks like. I actually have video of her masturbating and a couple of photos but my heart is so raw right now that I can't bring myself to go back and look at them again. Next time, I will be better prepared.
I'm sorry you are dealing with this garbage at work. Is there any way you can get her banned from your store?
It's a special layer of hell when you work w/the public, and OW comes to your job. XH's piglet came into my bar at least once that I'm aware of.
I would document everything I have, send the registered NC to you letter, signature required. Tell her any further contact is harassment, and you will pursue legal options. If she violates it in any way, slap the bitch w/a PPO or a RO.
If she violates it in person, I'd tell her I had the video. Then I'd let her know not to fuck w/me. I wouldn't threaten, I'd just unleash it. Maybe shame will make the OW go away.
PM if you want further info.
I kept the video with plans to use it if I needed to at some point. However, I think she might like that and secondly, she may or may not also have a video of WS. I have teenage children and I am worried she would find a way to send it to them.
I take a perverse pleasure in it because, based on the content of the texts, it is proof he's not contacting her any more. And, I admit with a little shame, I enjoy her pain
Both feet pointed forward; positive