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User Topic: Opinions Please?
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So for the last 4 years my H has sworn he has not had an A.

The last 2 Sundays in Church, the message was "Broken" and this past Sunday part of the message dealt with infidelity.....

So yesterday as my H was on a flight headesd to a meeting, we were texting and I mentioned something about his GF (which I do occassionally, just to get a reaction) in a text and about a restaurant where I think he has been with OW. He says your on a roll, and my reply, I could on and on and on he replies I know.

Then he texts I feel like a heel. I ask what are you talking about? He says for carrying on. I said sounds like the sermon the last 2 weeks got to you. He said, I'm hard headed and need to change.

My next text to him was now you wonder why there are certain cities I don't want to go with you (he travels quite a bit for work and that's where he was doing whatever he was doing).
His reply was yea looking back and I can see and feel your point.

Is that somewhat of a confession or am I reading too much into it? Once he landed and we talked on the phone, nothing else about the texts were mentioned, which is not a surprise, his communication skills that he learned from his mother are pretty lacking.

Me BS-50ish
WH (not according to him)- 50ish
M - 18 yrs together 21
No kids together- DD and DS from my 1st marriage
5 Beautiful GD's

Posts: 57 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Out West
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes I think he has something to tell you. I.wouldn't let it go. So weird how you texted him that because that's what I did, just seeing how he'd react because I suspected. He swore he had told me something and I said, must be your gf you told, not me. He answered back, yea probably so. Face to face he wouldn't talk about it and I didn't force the issue. I think I was scared to know then. Talk to him, I think he's feeling guilt.
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

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