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Breezy150 posted 5/6/2014 19:38 PM

I think it went great, we went to the woman that has been my IC since DDay. I wasn't really sure if that was going to be a good idea or not, I pictured my WH being defensive because she has been my IC.

It was just the opposite, he was so open and honest. It was like he was starving for guidance. I don't think he ever really tried in IC because nobody could dispute him or call bullshit on him. When we left he said he really liked this MC and what he liked the best is that she called him on his bullshit.

I don't think I am grasping at straws I see some hope, maybe separating and starting MC was what he needed to get kicked into gear.

My favorite part was the MC saying to him "Look this is not going to go away anytime soon and the only way to get through it to the other side is ALOT of hard work, so sign up or sign out."

I have had a really good day and I am very grateful for it. Yesterday even turned out pretty great after I wrote why that date hurt and let it go. WH and I worked on the garden together (for the first time ever) and I had a good time.

LA44 posted 5/6/2014 19:41 PM

I am hopeful for you, Breezy.

Keep watering those flowers. Maybe that can be your new thing.

Have you read the 5 Love Languages? Might be a good time to pick that up.

Take care!
LA

Breezy150 posted 5/6/2014 19:53 PM

I read it a lot of years ago, probably time for a refresher. I will do that.

Hope2B posted 5/6/2014 20:53 PM

My favorite part was the MC saying to him "Look this is not going to go away anytime soon and the only way to get through it to the other side is ALOT of hard work, so sign up or sign out."
This is great!

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