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karen49 posted 5/6/2014 21:25 PM

Haven't posted for years but have again due to issues with my son's wedding.It's been six years since the affair,it has been difficult on so many levels,emotional,financial etc.while he seemed to move on with a fun filled single life.I want you all to know that the struggle to ignore them and do the right thing for your family,no matter how lonely or difficult,or costly,is so worth it.My kids are now grown,but are now telling me they recognize and appreciate how hard I worked to keep things together,they learned the importance of family and integrity.They are people of quality,from a home with one strong mother,not a broken home that I so worried about!

Kajem posted 5/6/2014 22:13 PM

Thank you Karen for this!!!

I sometimes wonder what the future will hold for my kids and their relationship with XH. I'm a mom and I worry about things!

Thanks again.
K

Sadmumma posted 5/6/2014 22:34 PM

Thankyou so much Karen. It is so refreshing to see someone on 'the other side' of the mess....

I can only hope my children Feel the same when they're grown.

Thankyou thankyou thankyou

PhoenixRisen posted 5/6/2014 22:37 PM

They are people of quality,from a home with one strong mother,not a broken home that I so worried about!

love this!

coldshot posted 5/6/2014 23:36 PM

Great post, Karen. I worry about my sweet DD7 every day, and I hope she looks back and sees how much Daddy tried to keep it together. I have faith she'll be ok through all of this, but man it's hard sometimes. Thanks...

norabird posted 5/7/2014 00:49 AM

((((Karen))))


Lucky kids to have you as a mom

woundedby2 posted 5/7/2014 01:11 AM

Thank you, karen, for your reassuring words.

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