Topic: for those of you who are struggling
Member # 18234
| Posted: 9:25 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014|
Haven't posted for years but have again due to issues with my son's wedding.It's been six years since the affair,it has been difficult on so many levels,emotional,financial etc.while he seemed to move on with a fun filled single life.I want you all to know that the struggle to ignore them and do the right thing for your family,no matter how lonely or difficult,or costly,is so worth it.My kids are now grown,but are now telling me they recognize and appreciate how hard I worked to keep things together,they learned the importance of family and integrity.They are people of quality,from a home with one strong mother,not a broken home that I so worried about!
Posts: 308 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: east coast
Member # 36134
| Posted: 10:13 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014|
Thank you Karen for this!!!
I sometimes wonder what the future will hold for my kids and their relationship with XH. I'm a mom and I worry about things!
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 5744 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 42192
| Posted: 10:34 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014|
Thankyou so much Karen. It is so refreshing to see someone on 'the other side' of the mess....
I can only hope my children Feel the same when they're grown.
Thankyou thankyou thankyou
On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014
Posts: 536 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Land down under
Member # 35912
| Posted: 10:37 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014|
They are people of quality,from a home with one strong mother,not a broken home that I so worried about!
Posts: 509 | Registered: Jun 2012
Member # 40882
| Posted: 11:36 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014|
Great post, Karen. I worry about my sweet DD7 every day, and I hope she looks back and sees how much Daddy tried to keep it together. I have faith she'll be ok through all of this, but man it's hard sometimes. Thanks...
"The liar's punishment is, not in the least that she is not believed, but that she cannot believe anyone else." -- George B. Shaw
Posts: 52 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: coldshot
Member # 42092
| Posted: 12:49 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014|
Lucky kids to have you as a mom
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Member # 18522
| Posted: 1:11 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014|
Thank you, karen, for your reassuring words.
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7866 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
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