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JustWant2BHappy
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Stop  Posted: 11:47 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How long have you been in MC and IC and how often do you go?

Posts: 57 | Registered: May 2014
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We don't go anymore but we went for about 3 years (IC and MC) after d-day and then I'd go back every once in awhile for a 'tune up'. Usually not A-related, but for other life stuff. I love IC and I probably should go steadily because it really helps me!

[This message edited by SI Staff at 12:28 PM, May 7th (Wednesday)]


“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 55008 | Registered: Sep 2007
Matilda23
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been a little over 3 months since dday, but I've been in IC for about 3 months and I go every week. I have changed counselors 3 times and I am seeing the same counselor BBF is seeing. But she is wonderful. It was worth switching a few times.


WGF - 24
BBF - MercilesslyNuked, 30
DDay 1 - 1/6/14
DDay 2 - 1/23/14

I Am Strong! I Am Beautiful! I Am Smart! I Am Worthy!


Posts: 131 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Colorado
islesguy
♂ 38090
Member # 38090
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been in IC for 2+ years and am still hopeful that my wife will go to MC with me at some time in the future. She gave me a chance in MC in the past and I blew it with my lies so she is understandably not interested anymore.


Me: WH
Father of 3 beautiful girls and a toddler boy

Posts: 750 | Registered: Jan 2013
Neznayou
♀ 40654
Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We started MC just a few days after DDay. Since then, she's been our MC and our IC. There were short times when we didn't meet with her at all (maybe a couple of weeks) and times when we were meeting with her 4 times a week (3 IC each and 1 MC). Now we are at 1 or 2 IC a week and no MC sessions. However, we are meeting a new counselor next week, so the schedule will probably change.


Him: BH 1969
Me: WW 1973

Wedding: April 9, 1994

Son: 1998 (college freshman)
Son: 2002 (high school freshman)

Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012

I do not have it all together.


Posts: 862 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Far, far away
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