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JustWant2BHappy (original poster member #43351) posted at 5:47 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
How long have you been in MC and IC and how often do you go?
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 6:28 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
We don't go anymore but we went for about 3 years (IC and MC) after d-day and then I'd go back every once in awhile for a 'tune up'. Usually not A-related, but for other life stuff. I love IC and I probably should go steadily because it really helps me!
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DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Matilda23 ( member #42807) posted at 6:44 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
It's been a little over 3 months since dday, but I've been in IC for about 3 months and I go every week. I have changed counselors 3 times and I am seeing the same counselor BBF is seeing. But she is wonderful. It was worth switching a few times.
WGF - 24
BBF - MercilesslyNuked, 30
DDay 1 - 1/6/14
DDay 2 - 1/23/14
I Am Strong! I Am Beautiful! I Am Smart! I Am Worthy!
islesguy ( member #38090) posted at 7:29 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
I have been in IC for 2+ years and am still hopeful that my wife will go to MC with me at some time in the future. She gave me a chance in MC in the past and I blew it with my lies so she is understandably not interested anymore.
Me: WH
My BS has given me every opportunity to prove myself to her and I have failed again and again. I lied to her for well over 20 years and did nothing to help her. I made promises to her again and again that I would step up and still have not.
Neznayou ( member #40654) posted at 5:24 AM on Friday, May 9th, 2014
We started MC just a few days after DDay. Since then, she's been our MC and our IC. There were short times when we didn't meet with her at all (maybe a couple of weeks) and times when we were meeting with her 4 times a week (3 IC each and 1 MC). Now we are at 1 or 2 IC a week and no MC sessions. However, we are meeting a new counselor next week, so the schedule will probably change.
Him: BH 1969
Me: WW 1973
Wedding: April 9, 1994
Son: 1998 (college freshman)
Son: 2002 (high school freshman)
Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
I do not have it all together.
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