We do not discuss what happened, as a request by my husband. He has said that he will ask questions when he needs to.
We are in couples counselling one week, and individual counselling the following week.
Why did this happen? I believe it did because the week before my husband and I were talking and I believed he was saying he wanted a divorce. I was insecure, vulnerable, sad, scared and found comfort in the wrong person.
I have the book "Not Just Friends" but I have not read it yet, I am reading "I Do Again,"
We are in seperate rooms, and we have kissed three times, and hug lots and say i love you. We are planning trips - as a family and as couples only.
I am confused because I dont know his feelings as he wont talk about it, but I want to share a room again. I know I need to be patient but I also feel very alone, I have no one talk to.