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User Topic: The cost of heartbreak is....
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...$214.00

That's what it costs to euthanize and cremate a furry little body with whiskers and four paws, that held my heart and soul. I knew this bill was coming, but damn it hurts all over again.

RIP Shadow

ETA- I still cannot bring myself to change my signature line to "one furbaby"....

[This message edited by gypsybird87 at 3:39 PM, May 7th (Wednesday)]


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 1048 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I'm so, so sorry. You still have two furbabies...One will forever be in your heart..

They are all so important to our lives and such a blessing.

Hugs.


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3868 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7866 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gypsybird)))

I'm sorry.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7866 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gypsybird)))


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3578 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gypsybird87))))


There will come a time, you'll see, with no more tears. And love will not break your heart, but dismiss your fears.

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tired girl
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry.
(((gypsybird)))


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..love always comes at a price.. a heavy dose of loss, grief and sadness.

..we must accept these feelings the moment we offer our love to them.

We have 3 at the present time.. I feel and share your loss and heartbreak..

..of course you know that your next heartbreak is waiting for you at your nearest shelter..

..may he/she bring you healing and joy after your tears have dried..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4134 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( Gypsybird )))


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6741 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((gypsybird))))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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norabird
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gypsybird))))


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the hugs, everyone. It helps more than you know.

..of course you know that your next heartbreak is waiting for you at your nearest shelter..

smy, I know. Shadow was my third shelter kitty and will certainly not be my last. When I'm done grieving, and my current drama of downsizing from house to apartment has settled down, I will be looking for another cat to love. You can count on it.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 1048 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..
I will be looking for another cat to love. You can count on it.

.. somehow, I knew you would!!!

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4134 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gypsy)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweety, you don't even have to change your tagline. Just because they pass doesn't mean that they aren't our furbabies. ((((gypsy))))


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18702 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
brokengirl37
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry...our furbabies are our family...It hurts.......


Me: 38
WH : 40
2 Boys Age 10, 13
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker

Posts: 74 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Canada
Kalleigh
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I still grieve over my Westie Brystal I had to put down in January, she was such a little lady. I loved her with my everything, she was 4 years old and got pancreatitis


I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

Posts: 6511 | Registered: Mar 2003 | From: Wisconsin
sadone29
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Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.

We lost our beautiful cat almost five years ago. She will always be in my heart. She was the most gentle soul I have ever met and strive to be as open and loving as she was. My other cat is almost 14. I'm trying to enjoy all the time we have left together. It hurts so much, doesn't it?


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"I am pretty sure enforcing the boundary is the most important part of the boundary"- Jerry Seinfeld
Can't wait to D, but stuck financially until I find a way out of this SAHM position I'm in.

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gypsybird)))))


I'm so sorry..


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gypsybird87))))


"Don’t let the past steal your present. This is the message of Christmas: We are never alone." - Taylor Caldwell

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