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libertyrocks posted 5/8/2014 15:50 PM

I finally woke up a couple weeks ago, thinking my heart is no longer broken and I have nothing to worry about anymore. :) It was a good feeling indeed. I revamped my wardrobe, got rid of all my old clothes, decor, bed spread, shoes, even books and got new everything. So, I dress up now and feel great about myself! Even splurged on a photofacial. Best money I ever spent! lol.

Anyhow, I totally found myself flirting with this hot guy at the drugstore. I asked him how fast his car went. wow. He was caught off guard and a little nervous. It was so cute. And, he was totally hot. Black caddy, tattoos, black tee. Goodness. Anyways, I continued to talk to him, then an elderly gentleman came up to his window and started asking about his car, too.

Ahhhh, it felt so great to finally be interested in someone else besides obsessing about the numerous OW my STBX was sleeping with. Feels pretty good, now. Finally. So, just wanted to share. I'm finally getting the guts to be out and figure out what kind of guys I like.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 4:17 PM, May 8th (Thursday)]

wonderingbull posted 5/8/2014 17:07 PM

Great job... Ya know, sometimes you just have to take a leap without a net...

WB

Smashedat58 posted 5/9/2014 21:58 PM

Good for you. I am new to this feeling, too. Attention is most welcome. Too bad we can't wear a sign saying that we have been ignored, but we are great women, and deserve some attention.