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 risingfromashes (original poster member #3903) posted at 1:11 AM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

Smack in the middle of a prolonged and painful divorce process, which included a trial, I enrolled in a MA program in Mediation and Conflict Resolution. There I am in the middle of trial learning about negotiation techniques.

On top of the degree I have had opportunity to get certified in specific areas. Last semester it was small claims court mediation.

Best yet.....DRUM ROLL.....

Today I completed the certification program in Divorce Mediation!

Getting divorced from the dimwit has set me on a new career path.

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 2:33 AM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

Nice!!!

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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Smashedat58 ( member #41705) posted at 4:08 AM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

I love it. Maybe you can mediate dim wit's next divorce.

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 5:45 AM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

CONGRATS Rising !!!!

Getting divorced from the dimwit has set me on a new career path

I absolutely love this !

I'm so proud of you ! You've done good girl !

Happy Hugs,

Gma

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:21 AM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

Let's raise a glass to your achievement!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 2:27 PM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

Awesome! Nice work Rising!

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 4:48 PM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

That is awesome, and I did something very similar! I've thought about specializing in mediation too, but under up in legal research and writing.

The rainbow after the storm.

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 7:41 PM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

Truly a great way to rise from the ashes!!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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Jduff ( member #41988) posted at 7:53 PM on Friday, May 9th, 2014

Ha! Now that's what I call "making lemonade"! Congrats!

My mediator was also once divorced (plus she was a retired judge) and she did great!

The grass is always greener.... where the dogs are shitting.

-Soundgarden

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