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User Topic: my dad and lady gaga
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My father is a stereotypical old fashioned man in his 60's. He believes that things should be how they were when he was growing up, and is very close minded.

He is a very quiet man and barely speaks....while i was growing up I would bring friends over and he would never talk to them....my own conversations with him are limited...I have never once called my dad just to talk.

Throughout my life there have been very few times I have spent time with my father alone...there was never lots of bonding time. He has always been there for me when I need him and I know he loves me....but he was never open about it.

Tomorrow night my dad and I are going to a Lady Gaga concert together. The fact he is even going is hilarious. ...for some reason he likes her music, and I have always teased him if she ever came to our area we would go to the concert....sure enough, he found out she was coming here and bought us two tickets.

We are leaving in the afternoon, going to dinner, then the concert and spending the night in a hotel.

I am so nervous and scared to spend the day with my dad...how weird is that?


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

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BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have a great time! I hear her concerts are an experience and I'm sure you'll have lots to talk about with your dad afterwards.

I think it will be a great stepping stonw for the two of you. Hopefully it will lead to a closer relationship


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1270 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A daddy-daughter date, I love it! Have fun.


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweet! Have fun, sounds like it will be.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it sounds awesome! I hope you both have a great time!!!

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bionicgal
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best title for a post, ever!
What a sweet thing.

Have fun.


me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.

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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..enjoy the experience..

I can relate to the way you described your relationship with your dad.. I had a similar type with mine.

..now i'm the old guy! I am very close and chatty with both adult children..

..as for GaGa.. I'd love to see her "LIVE"..

..been to a couple of Madonna concerts.. fabulous!!

..hope your big night is all that you can imagine.

smy

[This message edited by somanyyears at 8:33 AM, May 9th (Friday)]


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She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope you have a great time Alysssa.

[This message edited by Aubrie at 9:38 AM, May 9th (Friday)]


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Schadenfreude
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

With that thread title, I had to open it. In a million years I would never have guessed it's exactly what's advertised -- Dad and Lady Gaga.

Enjoy the show!


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Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How fun! Enjoy yourself with your daddy! He may becoming out of his shell. Don't be scared, just open up and have lots of fun.


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DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


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cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this Alyssa! Have a wonderful time!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. Many ddays, last one late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 514 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone for the Well wishes!! It will definitely be an interesting evening!!


I'm nervous but excited too!! And I can't wait to see her live!!


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

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fourever
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My dad couldn't/didn't tell me he loved me until I was 25 years old.
Have a wonderful time, and embrace this opportunity you are both getting to open a door.

What a hoot!!


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 4:38 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is awesome Alyssa!!! My dad only ever wants to take me golfing...

I can't imagine him at a Lady Gaga concert!

I hope you two have a wonderful time.

[This message edited by knightsbff at 4:38 AM, May 11th (Sunday)]


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D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1525 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just an update! The concert was AWESOME! !!! We had a great time, Lady Gaga was fantastic! !!

I can now say i have tried gambling, and have no desire to do it again!


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

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UnexpectedSong
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic!!!


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