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User Topic: Won that bet
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I texted ex-idiot a reminder last week that his next regular visitation weekend happens to be mother's day weekend and I plan to exercise my visitation per the guidelines. Of course his comeback to this was....drumroll please..."Do I get a make-up weekend?"
Sheeeeeit. Dude. Seriously.
I didn't respond to that...his response was to schedule the afternoon visit this past Monday that resulted in the "Teslen vs. stripper-whore epically awesome exchange".

So, I bet Teslen last night that ex-shat would text today and ask to pick up Teslet.
And sure as stripper whore is a stupid fuck, he did:

You think I could get Teslet this afternoon. He asked me to take him to get you a mother's day gift and I'd like to see him.

Extra points for mother's day manipulation and can't you just hear the goddamn violin playing in the background regarding 'I'd like to see him.'

What I'd like to say to him:
Uh...if you want to see him then pick him up when you schedule visitation. Also, that day would have been the day to take him to get me a mother's day gift...

But please, don't trouble your pretty little head about my mother's day gift. It's been covered. Also, stop bothering me when it is clearly my special visitation time. Furthermore, don't tell lies that are so easily seen through. If you had told Teslet that you were going to pick him up and take him out to get me a gift...Teslet would not have been able to shut up about that this entire week. Know what Teslet talked about this week? The shitty things you said about me.

I don't have time for your bullshit.
BUUUUUT....if you did want to send over a mother's day gift, feel free to send over a check for the amount you are currently in contempt for + the child support you owe from the last 6 months. If you really wanted to be sweet and considerate, you'd get in your financials to your lawyer like you promised your lawyer 2 weeks ago so we can get our CS appropriately modified for the insurance purposes.

Now--I have a really fucking awesome weekend planned--so, my dear sweet ex-shat, after I post this, you will no longer take up any of my headspace.


Oh, what I did send to him:

We have plans.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012
♂ 40173
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ish kabibble indeed.

Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Posts: 1151 | Registered: Aug 2013
♀ 33129
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But of course he did. He is nothing if not predictable!

It seems like the crazy has ramped up in here this week! FTG!

[This message edited by PurpleRose at 5:04 PM, May 9th (Friday)]

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.

Posts: 3638 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

... and send me back my dog!!!

If we were playing a drinking game where we had a shot each time he was an idiot we would all be pissed off our tree a majority of the time.

Make-up weekend? Sure!

Or maybe this?

Ok. Now no more headspace. He's so predictable. FTG.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5945 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If we were playing a drinking game where we had a shot each time he was an idiot we would all be pissed off our tree a majority of the time.

Quote thread, stat...

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 18723 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pissed off our tree!! snork! I had a bestie from New Zealand and she would say "let's all get pissed as a newt! Unless she was already pissed, and then she said nissed as a pewt! I say the idiot drinking game would have us all nissed as pewts! FTG! Jeez.

Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.

Posts: 1352 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You completely crack me up.

“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope you are having a wonderful and exshat and stripper whore free day!

Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
Exwh married his AP

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.

Posts: 779 | Registered: Jan 2012
♀ 34373
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just can't believe this. It is too much. He should wear a sign, seriously. One that says "I am too stupid to comprehend life". I am at a loss for words and that doesn't happen often, ask my Mom.

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
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