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User Topic: Happy Mother's Day
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't been on SI for a long time, but I just didn't have any where else to go to write this. Thank you SI for giving me a place to say Happy Mother's Day to my Mom. A bit early, but I will be celebrating with my daughter on Sunday. Today I celebrated with my Mom.

My Motherís Eyes

I remember that day. We stood in your family room, my hands on your forearms, yours gripping mine. We looked dead on into each otherís eyes. They were the same. I saw the mirror of myself in your eyes. I saw the same green and amber and I saw the entire history of our lives. I saw the same steady gaze that I see each morning in my own mirror. Deep green eyes, deep, God, I miss you.

Today I went to give you flowers. I stood in the pounding rain wet to the skin to say, ďHappy Motherís Day.Ē It is so wrong that you are lying deep in the earth, up in the sky, souring in the heavens. I miss you.

I remember that day. The day we stood arm in arm, soul to soul and you asked me to knock you out so you would not see death coming. I did. What you saw last was me, my green eyes inside of yours, yours inside mine, inside of me.
Happy Motherís Day Mom

You gave me so much, my strength, my kindness, my devilís advocate mind, my artistic appreciation and you gave me the soul of your green eyes in every way that could ever matter.

Thank you,
Your loving daughter

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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tryingtwo))) That's beautiful!

"Trust is earned, respect is given, and loyalty is demonstrated. Betrayal of any of one of those is to lose all three." - Anon.

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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, May 9th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aw, sweetie. You gave her what she wanted and needed. No daughter could do more.

So good to 'see' you again

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I felt that all the way here.

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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I am also missing my mom who passed away over ten years ago.

Thanks for sharing, and Happy Mother's Day to you.


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Default  Posted: 12:51 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I hope you had a special day with your daughter.

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