WH is being secretive during our separation, I get it, he is done and doesn't want me to know what he does. But we are barely starting our Mediation - interview hoping next week - I'm meeting with L on Monday to get more info...
Anyway, there is a weekend coming up that he requested off, doesn't want kids, so I know OW is coming into town - she lives out of state.
I couldn't help myself and snooped.
So he is using some credit card miles and so far $120 and is flying her in. I'm sick to my stomach - why can't he just respect me and stop this craziness until we are divorced - or in his mind - legally separated.
Do I have any rights to complain - he is using our joint money and points for his A again. In his mind we are done - so I'm sure he thinks it's his share.
Or, do I keep this to myself, and bring info to my L. I am in a no-fault state so A has nothing to do with settlement. L mentioned I might be able to request half of his expenditures back, but I wonder if that is only if it's a lot. So far I've calculated maybe $2000-3000 on his A last winter and now this going on since March.
Help - I just want to scream - I think he is taking her to his family condo that we always go to. I just can't handle this. Second time she is here, first time to our family places. Well, at least I know my photo is still on the wall with our kids. I'm so mad - I don't even want to look at WH tomorrow at our son's soccer game. I know - 180 - it doesn't matter - stop looking for pain...it's just not right and I want to tell his sisters and parents what a scum he is being, but feel like that is crossing the line.