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User Topic: Tears at inappropriate times. ....
Shocked2believe
♀ 41010
Member # 41010
Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been feeling really sad and down the last two days. I'm struggling with the rollercoaster of emotions and inappropriate moments that my spontaneous tears appear.

Short version of story: WH decided we should "just be friends" but financially we cannot live separately for a while. So I have to contend with seeing him daily (when he does come home). I've been really strong up until now but now I'm feeling awful.

Just need to vent, thank you!


Me: BS Married 11 years, together 21
Him:WH - EA (PA?) with engaged COW.

'If you come into my life, the door is open; If you leave my life, the door is open; Just one request, don't stand in the doorway, you're blocking the traffic'


Posts: 125 | Registered: Oct 2013
Breezy150
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Member # 42421
Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Shocked2believe))) I am sorry, that is awful.


I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.

BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo


Posts: 544 | Registered: Feb 2014
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Am I reading this right? He gets to live at home and see his girlfriend at the same time?

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I know you said you can't live separately due to finances, but is there anyone you can stay with and offer them some sort of rent to help out?

Sending strength and (((hugs)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Shocked2believe
♀ 41010
Member # 41010
Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the support Breezy150 and simplydevastated.

Simplydevasted : Well I haven't posted for a long time and a lot had gone on since my last posts. Firstly we are awaiting further tests, results and examinations for WH as he's been rather ill for about 2 months now. His self diagnosis from the Internet is the awful "C".

In respect of the (ex?)EAP, as far as I'm aware, (ex?)AP and (ex?)WH don't correspond via technology any longer. They only see one another at work occasionally but unfortunately a couple of work collegues are mutual friends of both (ex?)AP and (ex?)WH and they still go out frequently together. This entails (ex?)WH staying out in a hotel as it's too far to travel especially after drinking.

The problem is that I want(ed) him to find new friends as these people are not "friends of our marriage" but he had decided that he would rather remain their friends and leave our marriage. I suppose he's made it clear! Just struggling today!


Me: BS Married 11 years, together 21
Him:WH - EA (PA?) with engaged COW.

'If you come into my life, the door is open; If you leave my life, the door is open; Just one request, don't stand in the doorway, you're blocking the traffic'


Posts: 125 | Registered: Oct 2013
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope the tests come back in his favor.

Unfortunately, the rest of it sounds like he's still in contact. If his friends are "friends of the affair" they will find ways to keep it underground.

This entails (ex?)WH staying out in a hotel as it's too far to travel especially after drinking.

Um...


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
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