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User Topic: Finally, I am all clear , again
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that whole breast experience was a nightmare..They called me back in to reexamine. I received so many conflicting stories from 3 offices, that I was in a panic.. Turns out, again, its all clear..Absolutely clear..I am dismissed.. Thank you god... As for my H.He is 98 percent normal..Little memory issues...8 days ago was the worst...So I am still waiting on that verdict to stay true...He is dismissed from his program with monthly dr visits. He is on a function with his company..Dr. recommended it.His job seems secure for now... He goes back Thurs..I am a little worried but hear from him often..Hes so far, fine.. So maybe we are back on track..Which is scary..I am wondering where we will be in the marriage...I have been very angry thru this ordeal... I have been very disappointed in him as a mate for some time...I was shocked at the level of anger I felt thru this..We discussed a little, very little, the issues before the breakdown...I blankly told him if he did any of the "women flirting or staring" after all this, I would be done..It would be too much..It scared him..He s afraid he will slip as he gets better... He says he is done with liquor forever...Cannot have any with these meds..We don't know yet how long he will take these..Drs haven't decided...Its amazing to see how much he has changed since stopping drinking.. He is sexually functional again... Great... That could go either way. It would be nice to wake up and all the problems be gone..SO far, only two are taken care of and I am thankful... thank you SI friends for supporting me thru this..I cannot even begin to explain the hell of the last 10 weeks..Thanks

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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news both about your results and for the improvement in your husband's situation.

Posts: 3061 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very glad to read this, cancuncrushed!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
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Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh CCC. this is awesome news!!! So happy and relieved for you!!
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

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Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news.

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1877 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!! The same thing happened to me, and I didn't have to go nearly as long not knowing as you did. I was terrified, and the things that went through my head...ugh! The back-and-forth for you must have been excruciating.

I am glad this is over for you with an "All Clear." I'll keep my fingers crossed that good things continue with your WS, too.

Lots of ((()))!!!

Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

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