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User Topic: Best response to WS?
Strangefacade
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Member # 43394
Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My stbx is still living in my home, I filed but lawyer says I can't kick him out without a court order.

I was coming out of the shower while he was milling about the kitchen, and I threw on a robe real quick so he couldn't see.
He said, "you know, I have seen you naked before."

Ug! Don't remind me!
What would you say?

I'm doing a modified 180 with him, but since I filed for divorce, it doesn't really matter.


I'm strong again. That's the only reason you choose me.

Posts: 36 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Mi
12yearsloyal
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Member # 43064
Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would tell him to fuck off with the current state of mind I'm in right now.


Him: WS, 51 EA/PA 2 years
D Day 3/10/14 N/C broke (phone/email) 6/14-10/14
Me: BS 52
OW: Banana Republic whore
Status: R or D Praying for answers
Betrayal: so painful it should be a crime - 12 months in prison.

Posts: 267 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: State of Distrust
Chicky
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Member # 18622
Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Call me childish (and I know this is) but I would have done just as I normally do which is walk around naked as a jaybird and completely ignoring the fact that he's there. I speak from experience. Drove him freaking nuts!


There's a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough.

Posts: 647 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Somewhere Over The Rainbow
mike7
♂ 38603
Member # 38603
Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

why don't you say what you just wrote?

Ug! don't remind me!


BH 53
WW 52
Two kids 21, 18

DDay 1/15/2013


Posts: 710 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: no longer afghanistan
confused615
♀ 30826
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would have said...

"Enjoy the memory."

And walked away...naked.

FTG.


BS(me)42
FWH 46
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 9880 | Registered: Jan 2011
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