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Best response to WS?

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 Strangefacade (original poster new member #43394) posted at 4:14 AM on Wednesday, May 14th, 2014

My stbx is still living in my home, I filed but lawyer says I can't kick him out without a court order.

I was coming out of the shower while he was milling about the kitchen, and I threw on a robe real quick so he couldn't see.

He said, "you know, I have seen you naked before."

Ug! Don't remind me!

What would you say?

I'm doing a modified 180 with him, but since I filed for divorce, it doesn't really matter.

I'm strong again. That's the only reason you choose me.

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12yearsloyal ( member #43064) posted at 4:25 AM on Wednesday, May 14th, 2014

I would tell him to fuck off with the current state of mind I'm in right now.

Him: WS, 51 EA/PA 2.5 years
D Day 3/10/14 N/C broke (phone/email) 6/14-10/14
Me: BS 52
OW: Banana Republic whore
Status: Fence sitting or D Praying for answers
Betrayal: so painful it should be a crime - 12 months in prison.

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Chicky ( member #18622) posted at 5:27 AM on Wednesday, May 14th, 2014

Call me childish (and I know this is) but I would have done just as I normally do which is walk around naked as a jaybird and completely ignoring the fact that he's there. I speak from experience. Drove him freaking nuts!

Givers need to set limits because takers never do. THIS GIVER DID and because I stood my ground, we are happily RECONCILED!

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mike7 ( member #38603) posted at 5:40 AM on Wednesday, May 14th, 2014

why don't you say what you just wrote?

Ug! don't remind me!

BH 60
WW 58
Two grown kids

DDay 1/15/2013

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 1:13 PM on Wednesday, May 14th, 2014

I would have said...

"Enjoy the memory."

And walked away...naked.

FTG.

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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