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User Topic: Meeting in two hours...anxiety!
♀ 40306
Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH and I are meeting in about 2 hours to attempt to discuss and agree on a couple of things regarding the settlement. We are meeting in a public place and I have put some boundaries in place regarding conditions that will require me to remove myself from the conversation.

I'm anxious. I never know what to expect with him. Rational WH or fly off the handle and stomp away WH.

Please send prayers, strength, mojo, ninjas...whatever you've got!


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

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Faithful w/Love
♀ 33128
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prays and mojo.....
You got this hon...

BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

Posts: 2890 | Registered: Aug 2011
♂ 41521
Member # 41521
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you good vibes...

Here, do this to him. Maybe you can put him in a trance and he will agree to everything!

Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."

Posts: 1061 | Registered: Dec 2013
♂ 40173
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about sending a big guy named Bruno with you?

Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidenc

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♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ninja mojo on it's way! You've got this, honey.

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

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