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User Topic: t/j on jfo's She's deleting texts
♀ 42852
Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've done some spystick stuff and the deleted texts aren't too incriminating.

OMG! I am sorry, but in THIS day and age, even if I was deluded into having an affair, there are WAY TOO MANY WAYS to get caught!! Sure there are WAY TOO MANY WAYS out there to hide it...BUT still. THERE ARE FAR TOO MANY secretive ways I don't even know about to get caught! Why do these people risk it??

I am sorry he is having to deal with his wife deleting texts and having to go to the extremes to catch her.

WHY do we have to be a walking lie detector on legs??

Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23

Posts: 3212 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
♀ 30024
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I for one wouldn't. Fuck that shit. Deleting texts? Buh-bye!

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 13385 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
♂ 43075
Member # 43075
Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Reading the posts here, I thought about the paradox of affairs and communication in the electronic era. Cell phones, burner phones, email, text ing, ims , and the like make clandestine communication much easier than it was in the days of mail and land line only communication.. The velocity of communication has exponentially increased. You can set up a quickie in seconds.

Yet, most of these are traceable as Guiness23 says. If, and only if, the betrayed spouse thinks to check. Not to mention the universally-present cameras and video recorders on cell phones. Eyes are everywhere.

In balance, you'd have to be nuts to think you'd be undiscovered forever. Cheating may be easier these days, but you better be looking everywhere at all times when with OP.

Posts: 892 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Midwest
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