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Guinness23 posted 5/14/2014 15:53 PM
I've done some spystick stuff and the deleted texts aren't too incriminating.
OMG! I am sorry, but in THIS day and age, even if I was deluded into having an affair, there are WAY TOO MANY WAYS to get caught!! Sure there are WAY TOO MANY WAYS out there to hide it...BUT still. THERE ARE FAR TOO MANY secretive ways I don't even know about to get caught! Why do these people risk it?? 
I am sorry he is having to deal with his wife deleting texts and having to go to the extremes to catch her.
WHY do we have to be a walking lie detector on legs??
SisterMilkshake posted 5/14/2014 15:56 PM
Well, I for one wouldn't. Fuck that shit. Deleting texts? Buh-bye!
Schadenfreude posted 5/14/2014 16:09 PM
Reading the posts here, I thought about the paradox of affairs and communication in the electronic era. Cell phones, burner phones, email, text ing, ims , and the like make clandestine communication much easier than it was in the days of mail and land line only communication.. The velocity of communication has exponentially increased. You can set up a quickie in seconds.
Yet, most of these are traceable as Guiness23 says. If, and only if, the betrayed spouse thinks to check. Not to mention the universally-present cameras and video recorders on cell phones. Eyes are everywhere.
In balance, you'd have to be nuts to think you'd be undiscovered forever. Cheating may be easier these days, but you better be looking everywhere at all times when with OP.